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How to Get Out and Stay Out of Relationships with Crazy, Abusive Women

There’s a new article on www.Shrink4Men.com by written by CrazyBuster, LiliM. She offers advice on how to safely end relationships with abusive, crazy, high-conflict partners and how to break the cycle of being attracted to abusive, high-conflict women.

Here’s the link:

How to Get Out and Stay Out Once You Realize You Are in a Relationship with Crazy

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  1. October 27, 2011 at 9:47 pm

    I cannot stress strongly enough the importance of audio taping. This will protect you against false allegations. Check first to make sure that it is legal in your state (it was in mine).

    In my case, I am convinced that it is the only reason I still see my kids, after a campaign of parental alienation and false allegations by my verbally abusive high-conflict spouse. Outside the home she has a honey-sweet personality. She had counselors and school teachers on her side–basically everyone except the people who really knew me. She was able to generate a stack of letters from her “support group.” She plaintively told the judge how everything she was doing was in the best interest of her kids. The courtroom was in tears. And then I hit the play button…

    Even if you have no kids, protect yourself from the likelihood of false accusations. My only regret is that I did not tape enough. There was much more to the story, for which I now have no proof.

  2. fred
    October 22, 2011 at 9:10 am

    my finace who file faulse charges against me , is now telling me the she loves me and wants me to leave and get myself right and then she will wait for me, and she is sure her 2 kids feel the same….

    Is this just a nice way of saying scram?

    I feel as though if two people couldnt make it right with each other the first time when times were tough…. why would you after making a million dollars go back to someone that did all the nasty things to you over and over in the first place.

    FYI..i am leaving no mater, this just sounds to me like she is playing head games. I dont trust her, she is very cold, she lies about drinking all the time, and is extremly verbally abusive, and physically as well.

    anyway..i am sure its just her passive aggresivve BS..be nce to me in a round about way, try to reattach to my heart…and then tommorrow rip me to shreds..thats her usually very consistant MO.

    Anyway…had to share

    and dont worry I aint coming back ..no way ..no how… she has caused me so much mind damage its not funny

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