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Winning an Argument with a Narcissist, Part 1


59121090_sI learned long ago, never to wrestle with a pig. You get dirty, and besides, the pig likes it.” (George Bernard Shaw)

In case there’s any question, the narcissist, borderline, psychopath, histrionic, paranoiac or garden variety bully is the pig in this equation. There’s one simple rule to winning an argument with these personalities: Don’t argue with them. At least, don’t fight with them on their terms. You simply won’t win.

In other words, fighting with a narcissist is “A strange game. The only winning move is not to play.” (War Games, 1983)

Conflict in a relationship can be healthy and productive. If handled well, it can strengthen a relationship via reaching mutual solutions, resolutions or compromises between two reasonable and emotionally mature people. Emphasis on reasonable and emotionally mature. If you’re having conflict with a narcissist, borderline or psychopath that person is anything but reasonable and emotionally mature. READ MORE.

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  1. January 24, 2018 at 10:31 pm

    I wish I would have found your web-site and your book “Saying Goodbye to Crazy” 10 years ago. What an eye opening and enlightening experience. Thank you for your work in this area and sharing it. I am better equipped now to deal with my NPDx. I will make sure to pass this information on to several friends that are in similar CRAZY ex situations. God bless you.

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