The Tide Turns for Charlie Brown: Lucy Finally Gets Her Just Desserts

Lucy van Pelt finally gets her just desserts in this humorous video clip from Family Guy.

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The Tide Turns for Charlie Brown: Lucy Finally Gets Her Just Desserts

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Dr Tara J. Palmatier provides confidential, fee-for-service, consultation/coaching services to help both men and women work through their relationship issues via telephone and/or Skype chat. Her practice combines practical advice, support, reality testing and goal-oriented outcomes. Please visit the Shrink4Men Services page for professional inquiries.

Video Footage of the Damaged Women’s Coalition March on Washington

There’s a new post on www.Shrink4Men.com that provides video footage from the Onion News Network of the drunken 2a.m. march on Washington by the Damaged Women’s Coalition. While the video is meant to be funny, it greatly mirrors the behavior of many unstable and abusive women.

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Just for Fun: The Damaged Women’s Coalition Video and Tear-Stained Letter

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Dr Tara J. Palmatier provides confidential, fee-for-service, consultation/coaching services to help both men and women work through their relationship issues via telephone and/or Skype chat. Her practice combines practical advice, support, reality testing and goal-oriented outcomes. Please visit the Shrink4Men Services page for professional inquiries.

Just for Fun: Professional Referee Training Video

There’s a new post on www.Shrink4Men.com of a funny Budweiser commercial that depicts how professional referees train at home: being yelled at by an abusive, high-conflict wife.

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How a Professional Referee Trains for Work at Home: An Abusive, High-Conflict Wife

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Dr Tara J. Palmatier, PsyD

10 Christmas and Holiday Gift Ideas for the Abusive Woman in your Life

There’s a new article on www.shrink4men.com. It offers a spoof on the usual Christmas and holiday gift guide. This gallows humor gift-giving guide offers suggestions on what to purchase for abusive wives, girlfriends and exes this holiday season.

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Top 10 Christmas Gifts for your Abusive, High-Conflict Wife or Girlfriend

Kind Regards,

Dr Tara J. Palmatier, PsyD

Lost and Found: Does Anyone Have an Ex-Borderline Girlfriend or Wife in the West Hempstead-East Northport-NYC Vicinity Whom You Told about Shrink4Men During the Break-Up?

Perhaps this is not the best way to go about doing this, but I’m a big believer in implementing consequences for crazy and malicious BPD behavior, so here we are. Beginning late last week, a woman, whom I assume is the former spouse or girlfriend of a man who frequents this site, began spamming my site with puerile comments in which she engages in name calling and other typical BPD verbal attacks against Shrink4Men readers/commenters and me.

None of these comments have been approved nor will they be approved because they’re nothing more than lame attempts to hurt my readers feelings and my feelings and they would only distract from the meaningful dialogue, sharing and support that takes place here. The irony is that her attacks don’t hurt my feelings. In fact, my thoughts are, “Gee, I can see why her ex broke up with her” and “I wonder how many texts and voicemails the poor bastard who was dating/married to her is getting everyday?” If anything, her spams only reinforce my beliefs about BPD and the information presented on this site.

Now, the reason I am posting this rather than something more productive: Gentlemen, if you believe this is your ex/gf/wife, please contact me and I will send you all of her spam comments with the date, time stamp and multiple IP addresses, so that you can include them as evidence of her unstable/stalker/harassment behavior in any pending divorce/restraining order cases. If need be, I have access to an Internet security expert who can trace pretty much anything directly to the source.

She has been spamming from multiple IP addresses. Over the weekend, most of the spams were posted from West Hempstead, NY and one from East Northport, NY at the end of the weekend. The most recent spam IP address traces back to New York, NY. My guess would be she has a summer place out on Long Island or family that she visited over the weekend and is back in the City now or perhaps she lives on LI and had to come into the city for something. In either case, if you suspect this is your ex and you would like some evidence of her unstable Borderline behavior, please send me an email and I’ll forward everything to you.

In closing, this is why it usually isn’t a good idea to tell your abusive wife/girlfriend ex about my site. You can certainly tell her you believe she’s abusive and possibly has a PD, but please don’t direct them to my website. It will gain you absolutely nothing. Plus, if you are planning to divorce, you do not want to give this kind of a woman a head’s up, which is what directing her to Shrink4Men will do. I understand the need for validation/vindication, but this is not the way to get it. The best way is to end the relationship, let go, get on with your life and have a healthy relationship with a kind, loving and stable woman. That is the best proof that “it was her” all along and not you.

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Dr Tara J. Palmatier provides confidential, fee-for-service, consultation/coaching services to help both men and women work through their relationship issues via telephone and/or Skype chat. Her practice combines practical advice, support, reality testing and goal-oriented outcomes. Please visit the Shrink4Men Services page for professional inquiries.

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