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To the Victim Go the Spoils: False Allegations, Men as Default Scapegoats and Why Some Women Get Away with Murder


There’s a new article on www.Shrink4Men.com that  discusses how society’s natural tendency to feel empathy for the suffering of women, the tendency to make women default victims and men default scapegoats, the double standards and gender biases of family court and the judiciary system, the financial incentives of individual divorce and custody cases and the enormous financial incentives of both the divorce and domestic violence industries contribute to the current state of family and criminal courts in which female predators masquerading as victims are often rewarded or go free while the real male victims and their children are being destroyed.

Here’s the link:

To the Victim Go the Spoils: False Allegations, Men as Default Scapegoats and Why Some Women Get Away with Murder

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Dr Tara J. Palmatier provides confidential, fee-for-service, consultation/coaching services to help both men and women work through their relationship issues via telephone and/or Skype chat. Her practice combines practical advice, support, reality testing and goal-oriented outcomes. Please visit the Shrink4Men Services page for professional inquiries.

The Divorce Danger Zone: Don’t Give In to an Abusive Ex-Wife, Just Say No!


There’s a new article on www.Shrink4Men.com that discusses one of the most common mistakes men make when divorcing a high-conflict or abusive personality disordered wife. Many men enter what divorce attorney David T. Pisarra of Men’s Family Law calls the Danger Zone, which is agreeing to the unreasonable and inequitable demands of their ex-wives just to finalize a high-conflict divorce. The power of saying no is discussed as an important step for abused men during a divorce and in his recovery from being involved with an abusive woman.

Here’s the link:

The Divorce Danger Zone and the Power of NO: Giving in to a High-Conflict Ex in Order to Finalize a Divorce Is Often a Big Mistake

Shrink4Men Coaching and Consulting Services:

Dr Tara J. Palmatier provides confidential, fee-for-service, consultation/coaching services to help both men and women work through their relationship issues via telephone and/or Skype chat. Her practice combines practical advice, support, reality testing and goal-oriented outcomes. Please visit the Shrink4Men Services page for professional inquiries.

OurFamilyWizard, Part 2: Lame Excuse a High-Conflict Co-Parent Uses to Not Use OFW and your Counter-Arguments


There’s a new article on www.Shrink4Men.com. It explores the most common excuses a high-conflict person (HCP) and/or abusive personality-disordered individual (APDIs, e.g., Borderline Personality Disorder, Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Histrionic Personality Disorder, Antisocial Personality Disorder, Avoidant Personality Disorder, Dependent Personality Disorder, etc.) typically makes in order to resist using OurFamilyWizard, the rationale for their excuses and effective counter-arguments.

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OurFamily Wizard, Part 2: Common Excuses Made by High-Conflict Parents Not to Use OFW and Effective Counter-Arguments

Shrink4Men Coaching and Consulting Services:

Dr Tara J. Palmatier provides confidential, fee-for-service, consultation/coaching services to help both men and women work through their relationship issues via telephone and/or Skype chat. Her practice combines practical advice, support, reality testing and goal-oriented outcomes. Please visit the Shrink4Men Services page for professional inquiries.

OurFamilyWizard: A System to Co-Parent with an Abusive, High-Conflict Ex, Part 1


There’s a new article on www.shrink4men.com. It’s the first article in a three part series about the OurFamilyWizard co-parenting communications system. This piece explains how OurFamilyWizard can decrease the level of stress and conflict in your high-conflict custody case and help you manage and expose a high-conflict co-parent.

Here’s the link:

OurFamilyWizard: An Excellent Tool for Co-Parenting with a High-Conflict Person, Part 1

Shrink4Men Coaching and Consulting Services:

Dr Tara J. Palmatier provides confidential, fee-for-service, consultation/coaching services to help both men and women work through their relationship issues via telephone and/or Skype chat. Her practice combines practical advice, support, reality testing and goal-oriented outcomes. Please visit the Shrink4Men Services page for professional inquiries.