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Emails from a Crazy Girlfriend: Drama in a Vacuum
While searching for images the other day I came upon this video montage of a two-week meltdown some poor guy’s girlfriend had while he was on holiday in Europe. The woman in question created the drama out of thin air. To say she had egg on her face when her boyfriend returned is an understatement. The whole hen house exploded.
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3. Don’t confuse “passion” with pathology. It’s amazing how in the absence of any real interaction, Em just kept the drama going and going and going in her own mind until it all blew up in her face. I hope the next woman JD dates actually listens to him when he talks about his travel plans. Yowser.
posted by Dr Tara J. Palmatier, PsyD
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