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Man-Woman-Truth Radio: Emotional Incest and Parentification

June 20, 2013 15 comments


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A women divorces after many years of marriage. Realizing she is now without another adult in the home, she turns to her 12 year old son and says, “You are all I have now.”

In another scenario, a father prepares to go on a business trip. Just before hopping a cab to the airport, he looks at his 7 year old boy and says, “You’re the man of the house while I am away. Take care of your mother.”

In still another home, 15 year old boy’s mother spends a lot of time telling him she is unhappy with his father; that she is always lonely and left to care for everything on her own. She is so thankful for her son, her “secret confidant.” He feels important does what he can to make her feel better. He also learns to hate his father.

Parentification” and emotional incest is a common theme in many dysfunctional homes. It often begins when a mother, who is supposed to be the caretaker of her child, reverses the roles and makes the child responsible for her emotional needs. It is a subtle and often overlooked form of child abuse.

Tonight, at 8:00 pm Central Time, please join Dr. Tara Palmatier and co-host Paul Elam for a special episode of Man, Woman, Truth Radio where they will address this subject in a general discussion that uses real life reports of emotional incest.

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Listen to Shrink4Men Radio Embed: Knights Who Need Rescuing from Dysfunctional Damsels

October 25, 2011 Leave a comment

There’s a new post on www.Shrink4Men.com that provides the embed of the October 24, 2011 episode of Shrink4Men Radio. Parentification of children, abuse, hostile dependency, the relationship between professional victims and professional caretakers and why professional victims don’t really want to be “saved” are discussed.

Here’s the link:

Listen to Shrink4Men Radio Embed: Knights in Need of Rescuing from Dysfunctional Damsels

Shrink4Men Coaching and Consulting Services:

Dr Tara J. Palmatier provides confidential, fee-for-service, consultation/coaching services to help both men and women work through their relationship issues via telephone and/or Skype chat. Her practice combines practical advice, support, reality testing and goal-oriented outcomes. Please visit the Shrink4Men Services page for professional inquiries.

Mother’s Day: A Day of Appreciation or a Day to Torture your Family?


There’s a new article on www.shrink4men.com that discusses the dark side of Mother’s Day and how some women use the day to control and hurt their children, husbands and/or ex-husbands. It also discusses how these women become even more entitled, controlling and crazy after giving birth and offers real examples of this behavior.

Here’s the link:

The Dark Side of Mother’s Day aka Golden Uterus Day: High-Conflict and Abusive Personality Disordered Mothers

Shrink4Men Coaching and Consulting Services:

Dr Tara J. Palmatier provides confidential, fee-for-service, consultation/coaching services to help both men and women work through their relationship issues via telephone and/or Skype chat. Her practice combines practical advice, support, reality testing and goal-oriented outcomes. Please visit the Shrink4Men Services page for professional inquiries.

Dr Phil and Domestic Violence: Only Women Can Be Abuse Victims

January 25, 2011 3 comments

There’s a new article on www.Shrink4Men.com that explores a recent episode of the Dr Phil Show in which Dr Phil refuses to acknowledge the fact that men can be the victims of abuse, too. The couple featured on the show are in a mutually abusive relationship. The wife freely admits to physically assaulting her husband and destroying his property. Instead of holding her accountable, Dr Phil minimizes her violent behavior by calling it a relationship issue while simultaneously condemning the husband for his abusive behavior.

Here’s the link:

Dr Phil and Domestic Violence: He Just Doesn’t Get It

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Dr Tara J. Palmatier, PsyD