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Shrink4Men Radio Monday, November 7, 2011: Female Stalkers and Their Male and Female Victims
Please tune in to Shrink4Men Radio this week when your host, Dr. Tara J. Palmatier, will discuss female stalkers (wives, girlfriends, exes and acquaintances) their victims, and what you can do to protect yourself if you and/or someone you care about is being stalked.
Here’s the link to the announcement and comments:
Shrink4Men Coaching and Consultation Services:
Dr Tara J. Palmatier provides confidential, fee-for-service, consultation/coaching services to help both men and women work through their relationship issues via telephone and/or Skype chat. Her practice combines practical advice, support, reality testing and goal-oriented outcomes. Please visit the Shrink4Men Services page for professional inquiries.
Teaching Boys about the Dangers of Abusive Women
There’s a new article on www.Shrink4Men.com that discusses the double standard our society holds about teaching our girls the dangers of abusive men and abusive relationships and the lack of education we provide boys about the dangers of predatory, abusive and/often crazy women. Just as with young girls, families and educators should teach boys this information as a form of prevention, just like we do with girls.
Here’s the link:
Fathers and Mothers: Teach your Children Well, Including your Sons
Kind Regards,
Dr Tara J. Palmatier, PsyD
Shrink4Men Coaching and Consulting Services:
Dr Tara J. Palmatier provides confidential, fee-for-service, consultation/coaching services to help both men and women work through their relationship issues via telephone and/or Skype chat. Her practice combines practical advice, support, reality testing and goal-oriented outcomes. Please visit the Shrink4Men Services page for professional inquiries.
Should You Post an Abusive Wife’s Behavior on YouTube?
There’s a new article on www.Shrink4Men.com that discusses a series of videos from a dysfunctional marriage posted on YouTube by a man who appears to have been emotionally, psychologically abused by his wife who seems to display Borderline Personality Disorder and other high-conflict and/or abusive personality disorder traits.
Here’s the link:
Scenes from an Abusive Marriage: Should You Post an Abusive Wife’s Behavior on YouTube?
Kind Regards,
Dr Tara J. Palmatier, PsyD
Shrink4Men Coaching and Consulting Services:
Dr Tara J. Palmatier provides confidential, fee-for-service, consultation/coaching services to help both men and women work through their relationship issues via telephone and/or Skype chat. Her practice combines practical advice, support, reality testing and goal-oriented outcomes. Please visit the Shrink4Men Services page for professional inquiries.
Female Stalkers, Part 2: Checklist of Stalking Behaviors
There’s a new article on www.Shrink4Men.com that discusses why men are more vulnerable to victimization by their ex-girlfriends, wives and partners and provides a list of common stalking and harassment behaviors, including cyberstalking and cyber-harassment. It is the second piece in a series of articles I’m currently writing on female stalking.
Here’s the link:
Female Stalkers, Part 2: Checklist of Stalking and Harassment Behaviors
Kind Regards,
Dr Tara J. Palmatier, PsyD
Female Stalkers, Part 1: Are You Being Stalked by your Girlfriend, Wife or Ex?
There’s a new article on www.Shrink4Men.com. Many men don’t realize that their exes, girlfriends and wives engage in what can legally be described as stalking and harassment, which is are criminal offenses in most states. This article answers the questions what is stalking and can men be stalked by women. It discusses which gender engages in stalking behaviors more, what constitutes stalking, who is more likely to stalk, and why it is important for men to be able to identify these behaviors.
Here’s the link:
Stalking, Part I: What is Stalking and Can Men Be Stalked by Women?
Kind Regards,
Dr Tara J. Palmatier, PsyD
Dr Phil and Domestic Violence: Only Women Can Be Abuse Victims
There’s a new article on www.Shrink4Men.com that explores a recent episode of the Dr Phil Show in which Dr Phil refuses to acknowledge the fact that men can be the victims of abuse, too. The couple featured on the show are in a mutually abusive relationship. The wife freely admits to physically assaulting her husband and destroying his property. Instead of holding her accountable, Dr Phil minimizes her violent behavior by calling it a relationship issue while simultaneously condemning the husband for his abusive behavior.
Here’s the link:
Dr Phil and Domestic Violence: He Just Doesn’t Get It
Kind Regards,
Dr Tara J. Palmatier, PsyD

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